10 Tips to Help You Find Your Soulmate
Actionable ways to help you meet your soulmate — much, much faster.
Be Your True Self.
Show up as your truest self – even if that means you go on a date with him and a few friends (something a little more casual). Hanging in a group is actually the fastest way of seeing how he really is around others. The rigid interview-esque format of the one-on-one, in which two people audition for the greatest role of their life — husband or wife — lends itself to acting. Connect with a human being, not a “future husband.” Be yourself because that’s who you’ll be in a few months anyway, and you might as well choose someone who likes you for your real self now instead of hiding until one day you become so exhausted you just can’t hide anymore – and you break up.
Is He Your Type? Then Maybe You Should Dump Him.
Take a step back and decide if you are dating the same guy over again. If you are then the chances are that it’s going to end the same way as all of the others. I didn’t have this particular issue, but a few of my girlfriends did. The reason that they kept being attracted to what was essentially the same person over and over is because that particular brand of comfort or drama felt familiar to them. But feeling familiar doesn’t necessarily mean he’s good for you. Take a look at the men you’ve dated in the past five years and see how many of them are really the same guy with the same issues just in a different body.