The United Boy’s Club of America: Oppressed by the Media Octopus
5 reasons why the men in charge are trying to change the conversation, and how we can change it back.
You know the stats. Men get paid a 40% premium over women’s salaries for the Exact. Same. Work. The glass ceiling has barely been cracked; women are still not promoted to management positions anywhere close to as often as men are. In fact, women hold only 16% of the top four positions under American CEOs. You can’t open a magazine or turn on the TV without seeing a women being dominated or objectified. Even little girls are being taught to self-objectify. And we STILL haven’t elected a female president. To wit, less than 20% of elected offices in America are held by women.
Clearly there’s work to do.
Historically, when an oppressed group wants to enact change, their oppressors manipulate them into believing that the change is done, even when it’s barely begun. Or they convince them that their oppression is really liberation (as is the case with self-objectification).
Ninety percent of the media in America is owned by six squid-like corporations with men at the helm.
In the case of women in America, the more powerful group [men who own the media and run the government] are constantly trying to trick the public. They’re trying to convince us that A) we no longer need feminism, and B) our value is in the shape of our butt (or boobs, or face), rather than our ambitions. Why? Because A) they don’t want the full extent of their oppression to be publicly acknowledged, and B) they don’t want women to enter their control room and steal any of “their” power.
So they try to change the conversation.
They do their best to convince us that there’s no glass ceiling (“Look! Here’s a female CEO — see? It happens!”). They remind us that the change is not status quo, and if you participate in this fringe movement, you make yourself into a weird and unattractive outlier. They try to take the power of the movement away by distorting the meaning of feminism; changing it into a dirty word that women are afraid to be associated with.
And I’m not so sure that most people realize what a huge impact this octopus of a media machine has on pretty much every aspect of our lives. I can’t think of a more influential force in our everyday lives. Even the way people around you act is tainted by the media. Its tentacles are everywhere.
Wondering why they’d go to all this work? Men in power oppress women for several reasons:
- These men are sexist (similar to racism, they view women as inferior to them) and want control over women,
- Their ego enjoys the power and the game of oppressing,
- They don’t want women to get in the control room and shake things up, challenging their power and the status-quo they’ve carefully crafted,
- They want to run the world the way they see fit, without the challenge of other perspectives and opposing ethical viewpoints,
- The media’s income is largely based on advertising, and advertising is largely based on making women feel inferior and insecure, because that’s when women buy the most products.
Despite what we’ve been told, feminism is about equality. Contrary to the media’s misinformation, it’s not about domination over men. Quite the opposite — it’s an anti-domination movement.
Want to enact change? Step one is researching and knowing the issues; recognizing how you, and other women, are affected. We need to start calling out the manipulation. Step two is being proud to call yourself a feminist and talk about the issues. Step three is being consciously supportive of other women, and quashing the instinct to be competitive with each other. Step four is participating in local elections, and electing more women into office.
Read more in the ‘United Boys Club of America’ series:
Also, check out: Is Feminism a Dirty Word? and Is Feminism Still Relevant?
Join in the comments below and let us know which of these four steps you’ve taken!
It’s not true that there’s no glass, and the truth is the glass is as thick as their face. ?
Feminism. This very controversial issue. It has so many translations, depends on the user that it’s difficult to trace the real meaning. Everybody wants to fight for gender equality, how’s that possible when fingers are not equal when 2+2 doesn’t necessarily have to be 4.
This isn’t the kind of sexism you should get to frustrated by.There are so many countries where female fetuses are aborted just because of their gender, so many countries where they aren’t offered necessary education. There are almost no countries where men are given protection from sexual abuse. Yes it happens to them too, 38% of rape cases are of male rape. I think it’s pretty sexist that we forget to consider them at all.
Of course, being a self respecting girl I am offended by these people, I meant “don’t let them get to you too much, they’re not worth it”. I just want equality, that’s the only reason I mentioned male rape exists. Feminists are supposed to fight for equality aren’t they? and I didn’t see a single example of sexism against men in this article.
You should 100% get frustrated by this sexism. Just because it’s worse in other places doesn’t mean we should just sit down and put up with this. Why settle when we can work towards eradicating this as much as possible? Also, this article isn’t “forgetting about men” it simply shows instances of sexism. Most commonplace sexism is done directly to women. Not to mention, these kind of attitudes create limiting environments to both women AND men. If women are seen as the ones who must stay home, in turn, men are seen as the ones who must go out there and support a family. Sexism always hurts both.
Women don’t even need to take the power away from men. It’s not even about the power. It’s about respecting us women.
I don’t mind electing more women in the office as long as they’re worthy of it.
This is just horrible. I hope I never become one of these men.
When men are sexist towards women it makes me angry but what makes me more angry is women who don’t support other women.
Internalised sexism :/ I see it so often around me, my mother, my aunties and my school mates are all under the same influence .
I, as a trans man, have experienced both sides of the story… literally I’ve been disrespected by male leadership in the military for my gender and I’ve seen men (who seriously had no idea I was transgender and thought I was a straight cis gender male) talk to me (although I was a stranger to them) about female coworkers as if she was a piece of meat. Every time you speak about someone else, male or female, pretend you’re saying it about your young son or daughter… maybe then you would understand why it’s disgustingly disrespectful to say some certain things about others based solely off their gender.
Is it just me, or are they even attacking women who don’t want to date men just because they’re feminist? NO, IT’S NOT THAT. WE JUST HATE MEN WHO HAVE NO BRAINS THAT ARE LOCATED IN THE RIGHT PLACE.
Media, media, media. What’s good with the media? I always hate them because they are biased. I once worked with them, and I can tell you they are taking sides.