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Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

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What about emotional connections and sexual bonds?

I know for a fact, as a woman, that the emotional connection that comes from satisfying sex with my boyfriend creates a bond; a bond that is strengthened each time we are intimate with each other. Adversely, if one of us were to cheat, eventually the intimate connection and instances of intimacy would decline.

Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

Whether your sweetie finds out or not, cheating inevitably has an emotional impact on the relationship and the individuals. Women seek to feel emotion; they thrive on it. Women find that they connect through emotion, and sex strikes a very emotional chord.

As a woman (or a man), just knowing that your relationship has been tarnished can disconnect you emotionally, even if slightly. There is always the trade-off; satisfying sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend for an occasional fling. This is definitely an act of self-sabotage!

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Born and raised in Texas, Shelly is currently studying to receive her Master's Degree in Publishing at the University of Houston - Victoria.  Shelly is a writer for Urbanette Magazine, and loves "everything it is and all that it offers our readers, and to me personally". She is passionate about life, family, friends, her maltipoo, Truman. She is a lover of all things culinary and the arts (13 year veteran of ballet).

    Reader Discussion: 154 Comments

    1. Dean

      No cheater will let their significant other have access to their device which is why it has become so hard for people to get evidence of infidelity. You can break rules to get the peace of mind you deserve. There are only a few people who can pull this off and you have to be extremely careful. 
      I had to put up with a cheating partner for almost two years until I decided to get evidence since I had nothing on her. It was a tough decision but it was necessary!

    2. Nora

      Women cheat on men all the time too…. or at least think about it. I’m not sure why everyone is only focused on men cheating when I know plenty of women face the same problem

    3. Men who think they’re so attractive cheat. They feel like it adds a length to their thing whenever they cheat. Too bad, because no it doesn’t.

    4. Dawn Breedlove

      Excitement really dies. Eventually you’ll get bored of the thrill and what has become of that new found relationship of yours? Nothing.?

    5. Tara Todd

      I saw on my newsfeed once about the ad in the billboard when her husband cheated. Kinda thought it was real but that was funny af.

    6. Paula Wilkins

      I’ve heard it so many times that men who cheat will blame their partners for their inadequacy. If there’s anyone who’s inadequate, it’s the man who decided to cheat just because of petty reasons. Heard this a lot before and I’ve met men who are worse than the other. Men who want to cheat will find reason in their partners so that they can continue to keep on cheating. I pity those women who get victimized by them because there are times that they would blame themselves.

    7. Sarah Brady

      OMG at that photo of the guy who has a tarpaulin hanging on his neck about cheating. That is so funny ? CLASSIC!!!

    8. Maggie French

      Men sometimes argue that cheating is subjective and I’m like… ???

    9. Eula Cox

      I’m so glad I found a guy who cheated before but completely changed. I know some of you might say that I should watch out, but I know for sure that he’s changed.

      • MARIA

        Lucky for you, because most women have to deal with cheaters who won’t stop.

    10. Tabitha Green

      How can they have the opportunity to heal when they won’t stop cheating? It becomes an unending cycle.

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