7 Steps to Prevent Infidelity

Our best common-sense tips for preventing infidelity in the workplace and elsewhere.


4. Protect your marriage by discussing relationship issues at home.

If you do need to talk to someone else about your marriage, be sure that person is a friend of the marriage, and not someone you find attractive. If the friend is knocking marriage in general, respond with something positive about your own relationship.

7 Steps to Prevent Infidelity

Cheaters say the danger developed because emotional intimacy grew over time with someone they worked with.

5. Don’t go over the line when you’re on-line with Internet friends.

Discuss your online friendships with your partner and show him/her your email if they’re interested. Invite them to join in your correspondence so your Internet friends won’t get any wrong ideas. And definitely don’t exchange sexual fantasies online (i.e., don’t be an Anthony Weiner!).

6. Keep old flames from reigniting.

If a former lover is coming to the class reunion, invite your partner to come along. If you value your marriage, think twice about having lunch with an old flame.

7 Steps to Prevent Infidelity

7. Make sure your friends are supportive of your marriage.

Surround yourself with friends who are happily married and who don’t believe in fooling around.

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Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D. is the author of NOT "Just Friends": Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal.

    Reader Discussion: 153 Comments

    1. Fred Altman

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    2. Jackie Chavez

      Cheaters, be careful and stop cheating on your innocent partner. Cheaters take some inspiration from this article and stop your dirty business.

    3. Ramon Walters

      I wish my girlfriend would have come across this article before cheating on me.

      • Marilyn May

        My husband needs to see this. He just can’t get enough of other girls and keeps on cheating on me.

      • Doreen Carlson

        I need to share this with my best friend’s boyfriend because he is cheating on my friend and I don’t want to break her heart. I wish he magically reads this article and can control himself after.

      • Rosemarie Gibbs

        Nobody can stop a cheater from cheating. Not an article. Because a cheater would never accept that he is a cheater. And would never consider this tips.

    4. Kathy Gregory

      Thanks for saving a bunch of relationships. I have been in a relationship with a cheater and he ruined my life. I would be so happy if this article will help save a single relationship.

      • Judy Robertson

        TOTALLY! This article is gonna help save many relationships. Thanks urbanette for helping people! Thank you for showing those cheaters the right way.

    5. Cecilia Little

      Why do people cheat on their partner?? I hate people who can’t keep their promise and cheat. Everybody I know is either cheating or getting divorced.

    6. Gloria Castillo

      Thank you for the tips — many of my friends need this because they can’t stop staring at other girls even when they are committed.

    7. Rex Bush

      I love my wife and don’t need these tips.

    8. Juana Gross

      These are really great tips to make me concentrate on work and avoid those handsome guys in my office.

      • Tasha Pope

        I find it funny people these days need tips to prevent cheating on their partner.

      • Elisa Wolfe

        It’s cheating when you have to control your feeling with the help of these tips. If you love someone really you won’t be attracted to anybody around you no matter how attractive they are.

    9. Nettie Robinson

      I left my husband many years ago because he cheated. There no forgiveness for cheating.

    10. Emily Rose

      The most important tip to prevent infidelity is to see that your partner needs are met physically and emotionally when their needs are satisfied they don’t have as much interest to look elsewhere.

      • Jeanette Schneider

        I agree. I’m not scared because the best defense against cheating is a great relationship.

      • Johanna Kelly

        I agree ever couple should communicate honestly about what they need to feel fulfilled and fully happy.

        • Antoinette Morris

          Definitely. The best protection against cheating and affairs is ensuring your relationship is too awesome to mess with. Keep things fresh and love life.

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